40 Days and 40 Nights
March 14th, 2010 by bryanbenson1958|
IMDB rating: 5.30 Plot: Nicole broke up with Matt months ago and is now engaged to someone else. He’s very good-looking and has no trouble finding other lovers, but that doesn’t help because he’s still obsessed with wanting her back. Then he gets the inspiration that swearing off sex for Lent (all forms of sexual activity, even kissing or masturbation) will give him the perspective he needs. So of course a few days later he meets a woman and they fall in love. Now Matt sees his vow as a personal matter, and won’t even tell her about it, but his friends think otherwise, and now the complications begin… |
Actors: Hartnett Josh,Costanzo Paulo,Trese Adam,Trainor Aaron,Fitzgerald Glenn,Maronna Michael C.,Anderson Stanley,Comedy,Drama,Romance,
I have 2 know where this depression is steaming from could it be that my wife is just not the one for me ?
Well me and my wife met at my going away party in 2005 I was going to military national guard challenge to get through high school. I met her and I shipped out a day later, I got her adress so I could write her. I wrote her for 6 months then graduated and came home to start a relationship. In the begining trust was lost cause she was still " seeing" her ex. Our relationship started to get rocky from that point. However after about 2 years we got our first appartment together. I was young and adventourous and stayed out all night and argued to leave and stuff. We ended up getting pregnant and 9 months later my little love was born. I was in compleat bliss being as we got a bigger apartment I got a career bought the car and I felt like it was really getting great. But that wouldn’t last long. We began to argue again about differences and at times it got violent both verbaly and physically. Then one day she said she was pregnant again this one however was different she would say things like" I feel like the baby is dead" I would think like don’t speak like that. This one I wanted to do right so we got married in court not the wedding I hoped forbut whatever we were now husband and wife. One day We went for an aultra sound and we were told wewere having a nother boy. Wewere happy as ever. About an hour or 2 later I was getting ready for work and she had gotten a phone call from the doctor the doctor had explained that our baby boy had some problems, we went in for another aultra sound. We were told that our baby had water in the brain and he was not fully developed in the brain, we were told that he would die and were given a few options to give birth and watch him die at birth induce labor or abortion. I was soo hurt soo depressed and crying I was in real bad shape but I knew I had to be strong for her and us. My wife chose abortion and had one. I understood her pain I missed my son and still do. We have really had it hard but I just wanted to love her. She was my first real love. We carried on but things would keep crumbling we separated and made choices I know I have regrets about, I was always loyal and always honoring her and us. But she could not cofide in me and would in other men. She has grown apart from me even though she says she loves me at times she mostly is angry with me and dissaproves me. I had been fighting this depression for a really long time and I just want to love someone that loves me back and doesn’t belittle me or say things like" watch when it all comes out what I am doing to you your gonna feel stupid and you deserve it" or "your a piece of shit your no good" I work 40+ hours a week I bought a brand new car for her I buy heranything she needs I love her every day but I am hurt that it’s only about her what about me. I come home to no hug or kiss no meal the house is Amess and she gets mad when I’m looking through the cabinates for a snack after work at night or if I wanna take a shower ( I get out of work at 1130 pm) I’m an engineer so I’m dirty. There is a lot of verbal and mental abuse. And I’m wondering If I should stay or look else where I really need a woman to love, care, respect, hug kiss caress cuddle hold and be happy with and be glad that were together I need that love them comon interests companion and friend ship… Should I prepare to move on and give a nother woman my love?
Move on.
indesisive | Feb 07, 2010
Having an abortion or a miscarriage can do a lot of damage to a woman’s emotional state. Both of you should go to marriage counseling and see if things can change. It might help and if it does not then the child you have does not need to live with people who are always fighting, yelling,etc.
You may want to forget about wanting to love, respect, hug ,etc of a woman until these problems are worked out.
Julie | Feb 07, 2010
You both should seek marriage counselor.
mom of 3 and done! | Feb 07, 2010
hang in there , i feel your pain. i can’t write about it now, my mean wife is home. i feel like crap too. i get no hugs or kisses too. nothing i do is good enough. i would move on if i were you. i know it is hard but i am moving on from my shit too
namebling | Feb 07, 2010









